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Is there competition in a Society of Esteem? / Gibt es Wettbewerb in einer Wertschätzungsgesellschaft?

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This question has two answers: no and yes.

No, there is no competition in a Society of Esteem. Competition bases on comparisons among people. According to the idea of a Society of Esteem comparing each other is a futile act because there is no real base on which a comparison could happen.

Every single person is unique with unique talents, unique life experiences and unique personal development. On which level could a comparison be possible? There is no other common level between people than the esteem that everybody deserves to the same extent.

And yes, there is competition in a Society of Esteem. It is the inner competition. Receiving esteem just for being here with our unique talents and personalities creates an atmosphere in which we want to grow.

This ambiance allows competition which we give ourselves in order to learn more, to be better in what we do the best. This kind of competition is not about being better than somebody else but about being better in what we want to do, in what we see as our talent and vocation.

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Diese Frage hat zwei Antworten: nein und ja.

Nein, es gibt keinen Wettbewerb in einer Wertschätzungsgesellschaft. Wettbewerb basiert auf Vergleichen unter den Menschen. Gemäss den Ideen einer Wertschätzungsgesellschaft ist das Vergleichen untereinander eine nutzlose Handlung, denn es gibt kein echtes Fundament, auf welchem Vergleiche geschehen können.

Jeder Mensch ist einzigartig mit einzigartigen Talenten, einzigartigen Lebenserfahrungen und einzigartiger persönlicher Entwicklung. Auf welcher Ebene sollte ein Vergleich möglich sein? Es gibt keine andere gemeinsame Ebene als die Wertschätzung, die jede Person gleichermassen verdient.

Und ja, es gibt einen Wettbewerb in einer Wertschätzungsgesellschaft. Den inneren Wettbewerb. Wenn Menschen Wertschätzung erhalten einfach fürs Hiersein mit ihren einzigartigen Talenten und Persönlichkeiten, dann wird Raum geschaffen, in welchem wir wachsen wollen.

Diese Situation erlaubt Wettbewerb, die wir uns selber geben, damit wir mehr lernen, damit wir darin besser werden, was wir gerne tun. Diese Art Wettbewerb handelt nicht davon, besser zu werden als jemand anderer, sondern davon darin besser zu werden, was wir tun, worin wir unser Talent und unsere Berufung sehen.

Esteem for our work

In the economy we have occupations.  If you are one of the lucky ones in our society you get to have a job that is also your vocation. These are the people who are happy in their work and glad for each new working day.  Working hours are often not enough, because they are so fulfilled by their tasks.

More often work in our society means drudgery.  Surveys have shown that many people aren’t happy in their work. Each evening they can hardly wait to leave. They don’t find their vocation in their work but perhaps in their spare time, in their hobbies.

Why are so many people unhappy with their job? We could find the reason for that in the economic system of our society and in the rules of the hierarchy of value. Most people don’t choose their jobs according to their abilities but rather to the amount of the wages.  Work in our society primarily means earning money.

In the society of esteem economy works differently. The choices of the occupation occur according to the talents. In the society of esteem each single talent is esteemed, therefore the choice of career happens free of exterior stimulation such as money.  Each occupation is equally valuable.  Work means self-fulfillment.

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Esteem replies to hierarchy of values, part 2

Hierarchy of values is the basis of our society. It works because two important points are fulfilled in the everyday life: comparison and competition.

In the last post, I wrote about comparison.  Today we’ll look at competition.

In a society with a hierarchy of values competition causes survival or death.   This may sounds overly dramatic but even the loss of a job can have sometimes tragic effects.

It’s quite common to assume that top performances can only be produced if we are driven by competition.  In a society with hierarchy of values it’s like this. The driving force of competition is fear of losing prestige, recognition and esteem. The loser in a competition is treated as less valuable, and is considered as less esteemed. Whatever achievements are created under competitive pressure they lead to short-term results and long-term human failures because of frustration, stress and fear.

The society of esteem knows no competition in this sense. Each person receives the same esteem for whatever his effort is. That’s why the people in the society of esteem are free from fearful feelings. People do what they do best and what they are able to do best. If there is a kind of competition in the society of esteem then it’s in the form of an internal impulse. As soon as our profession is a vocation we push ourselves freely to peak performance because we like our work and because our nature leads us to growing self-development.

The society of esteem replies to the hierarchy of values with esteem. If we live in a society of esteem we don’t have to deal with competitive stress. We can freely concentrate upon ourselves and our abilities. Only this brings us higher achievements lasting as long as our health and happiness.

Those who produce top performances with joy, motivation and full strength are the best foundation for a growing, healthy and equitable society.

Esteem replies to hierarchy of values, part 1

We live in a world of hierarchical values .  A hierarchy of values can also be called a gradations of values. One thing is worth more than something else.  One person is worth more than the other. We’ve known this since our childhood.

The hierarchy of values is based on two important points: comparison and competition. Today I’ll address comparisons. Comparing people with each other is the basis for a hierarchy of values. I don’t need to mention what kind of feelings comparisons impose on us. We internalize comparing so much that we often make no step in our life without comparing. We compare ourselves with others and we are also compared unceasingly.

Who among us doesn’t recognize our society in this picture?  Who recognizes himself in this picture?

The society of esteem knows no hierarchy of values, it knows esteem. There is no comparison among people. On which basis do we compare ourselves?  Each of us is unique and incomparable in the truest sense of the word. Being compared at an unequal level creates injustice of which we try to compensate incessantly. Continue reading Esteem replies to hierarchy of values, part 1